We had no one else to learn this from- none of our parents were shining examples of relationship success- so we learned this from each other: when someone you love needs you to, you can get a hold of your five-alarm temper, get a hold of the shapeless things that scare you senseless, act like an adult instead of the Cro-Magnon teenager you are, you can do a million things you never saw coming. Tana French
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We had no one else to learn this from- none of our parents were shining examples of relationship success- so we learned this from each other: when someone you love needs you to, you can get a hold of your five-alarm temper, get a hold of the shapeless things that scare you senseless, act like an adult instead of the Cro-Magnon teenager you are, you can do a million things you never saw coming. We have two parents, but our relationship with them is not perfect. We have to do the best we can with what we know about them. We don’t know what they would do in certain situations like death or divorce.

We don’t know if they would ever cheat on us. So, we learn from each other who to call and who not to call for certain situations; who to let into our lives and who not to; how to communicate with other people; how to treat people at work; how to take care of ourselves. We learn all this from each other by spending time together and listening to the other person’s thoughts and ideas.

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